Since I was a little girl, I’d strived to excel.…
I was the A student, star athlete, and high achiever at work. 
Like many driven high-achievers, I pushed myself hard and my body started breaking down.

I had to find a way to live my life where I was able to enjoy it, not be stressed out, and still get results. Period.

And I discovered it IS possible to get results and achieve goals without sacrificing peace of mind, joy, and life. From this discovery, a new way of being for women and men in corporate, entrepreneurs, and even stressed out moms emerged.

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About Debby

How losing the love of my life saved me...

I’ll never forget the moment I ran out of the vet’s office, my back pressed against the wall sinking to the ground. As I watched Dr. Feinberg approaching, I knew the inevitable question was coming.

“Debby, do you want to remove Akira’s leg?”

Just a few moments back, in his office, he delivered the news. Akira had bone cancer.

My soulmate and love of my life Akira, a Shiba Inu, had been bitten by a brown recluse spider just months ago.

It was devastating to watch her health decline and I’d done everything imaginable to help her heal. Laser therapy, acupuncture, chinese herbs, pain medicine, water therapy, and on.

And now, in order to continue living, Akira would lose her leg.  It was the hardest decision I ever had to make.  Dr. Feinberg told me many dogs went on to live happy, healthy lives with just 3 legs, so I agreed.

 But Akira suffered tremendously after the surgery, and we were never able to get a handle on her pain. 

On one of her last days I carried her outside to get fresh air. As she pressed against my chest, I felt divine love pour out of her. It felt as we were one. It was the purest love I’d ever felt. My heart broke as tears streamed down my face knowing she would be leaving me soon.

When she crossed the rainbow bridge and earned her angel wings, I was devastated. It was the ultimate loss, the greatest love I'd ever known. But something happened I could have never anticipated.

Seeking Success At All Costs...

Since I was a little girl, I’d strived to excel… I was the A student, star athlete, and high achiever at work. 

By 28 I’d worked my way up to a top Compliance Manager with Bank of America. I drove a Lexus, bought my first home in San Diego, and to all accounts I looked and played the part.

Like many driven high-achievers, I pushed myself hard and my body started breaking down. I had a cancer scare that served as a major wakeup call. I needed to make a big change in my life.

I left my corporate career of 12 years and started my own company, Vibrant Lady Health & Fitness, a wellness center and storefront in Pacific Beach, CA. 

Selling my home and pouring all my resources into the business, I’d get there at 6 am, leave at 8 pm, and collapse into exhaustion with little time for anything else.

I woke up each morning dreading the day ahead knowing that even with a team of people around me, I’d be doing the work of 7 people.  

Taking my destiny into my own hands was a repeat scenario of corporate. 

Little did I know that a tiny dog would free me….

For 13 years, Akira had watched me as my life broke down and I fixated on work at the expense of my health, relationships, happiness, and life.

When she got sick, I made a decision.  I loved her so much and for the first time in my life I would NOT value seeking to make money or achieve success over life.  I halted my business and poured every resource I had into her healing.  No matter the cost, I would do all I could for her.

A few months after Akira passed, something in me spoke loudly, go see your dad and brother in Montana. Now. One of them may not be with you for long. 

While grieving and trying to get back to work, I once again dropped everything and went for a visit.  I knew I needed to let them both know just how much I loved them.  And I did.

Less than two months later I would return to be with my brother in ICU, his heart had stopped during an outpatient surgery, and 10 days later he was gone.  And one year after Jeff passed, dad did, too.  

I was shocked.  I had to take a deep hard look at the causes.  My dad drank himself to death. My brother worked himself to death. 

It was as though the universe somehow was determined that I would finally see what really mattered in life.

By revealing the unconscious drive for success to prove my worth and gain respect, admiration, and approval, I became free. 

No longer needing to seek my worth through success, I was freed to have big goals and take actions that were truly in alignment with my authentic self and life...without the PUSH.

A new way for high-achievers to “succeed…”

When I was finally ready to pursue my goals and take actions to re-build and create a new life, I felt resistance and even slight panic. 

What if I fell back into the workaholic disconnected ways of living? I knew how easy it would be to fall back into those ways, to push too hard, and check out from my life. 

I didn’t think my health, or I could take it.

I had to find a way to live my life where I was able to enjoy it, not be stressed out, and still get results. Period.

First, I had to redefine what success even meant to me.

Other people’s ideas of success - our parents, culture, world… has been imprinted on us since before we were even born in many cases, and the truth is there’s an actual right design for success in YOUR life.

Second, I had to create a new way of daily life where I could enjoy living in the moment, take “right action” with ease, and achieve goals without pushing or checking out again.

I leveraged skillsets from both my corporate and entrepreneurial life to establish tools, structure, and a system to move forward and create a thriving life without the push. 

A way to be conscious and rewire my mind, actions, and behaviors to stay connected and take action from a place of what is REAL for me (authentic) vs from urgency to get RESULTS at the same time.

And I discovered it IS possible to get results and achieve goals without sacrificing peace of mind, joy, and life. From this discovery, a new way of being for women and men in corporate, entrepreneurs, and even stressed out moms emerged.

Here’s How Thrive System Is Helping Professionals To Redefine Success and Create Results With Ease

A software developer from San Diego, CA writes...

“I have been using Debby’s system for about 5 or 6 months now and it has been a key for my personal/soul growth.  

I have used many systems for goals and tasks and what I learned is that Thrive is not about managing tasks but about bringing awareness and focus to what is important to me.  

In the past I’ve written down what was important to me such as my health, my spiritual growth, connection, my emotions, relationships, money, etc. but somehow, I always lost my awareness and usually did not make much progress.  

I wanted something to help me identify what was important to me and this is not necessarily what I do for a living as I am a software developer and my relationship with money is very important.  

Thrive provided a framework for me to identify what was important for my soul’s growth, reflect and explore why it is important, and to have that in a system where I could see it and see my progress.  

I discovered that I really wanted to focus on a few areas and really kept my focus on those areas.  Thrive gave me a way to identify, track and reflect on what I did.  

In the past my main focus and where I spent my time was mostly, well OK, all of my time on what I was supposed to be doing and my work and really nothing for my soul.  I could not see that I was neglecting myself and I was feeling unfulfilled, unhappy and knowing I was not in the right place (spiritually speaking). 

I became overwhelmed with my to do list and generally lost in the daily grind.  Since using Thrive I find that I spend most of my time looking at my Thrive system and creating what I want for me and my soul.  

I think more about me and not the daily grind and this is so big for me and I now know there is much more to life than just my job and house errands. 

I learned that a lot of what you dream of is possible. I now tend to think about possibilities and not being in the victim mode that I have lived with for so long, and I can't say how important this point is for me.  

Growth takes work, hard work and I am grateful for it.  I know I can do it now and I also know that I am my own best advocate.  

I am fortunate to have Debby guide me through this Thrive process.  

Thrive provided that bridge between my logic mind and my spirit, how great is that.  Debby has a really good thing going here and I am so grateful.”

If You Want To Create A Thriving Life and Results With More Ease...

We may be a good fit to work together! 

AND fortunately…you don’t have to lose as much as I did to get there.

I only take a handful of clients at any one time, but if you’re excited by the possibility of getting the right things done in less time, less stress and achieving your goals while enjoying your work and day...

Whether you’re a corporate executive, a working professional, entrepreneur, or a busy mom, Thrive System works for people just like you and it can work for you too.

I run a lot on intuition these days so if you’re feeling like there could be something here, please reach out to me personally and tell me a little bit about yourself, what you’re looking to accomplish, and what it means to you over at [email protected].

You can also check out the 7 Days to Productivity With Ease challenge here.

Debby Eubank is a Teacher, Author and Speaker on creating a thriving life you love and experiencing greater life fulfillment.  She strongly advocates a new way of achieving goals and taking daily action without the constant push, stress, or urgency that is too often celebrated in society at the cost of our health, relationships, and life.

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